Getting In A Relationship At A Young Age?

Absolutely, I got into a relationship at a young age in secondary school. We lasted for 2 years and about 4 months. Well, it is quite toxic but it played a huge part in allowing me to become a better person today.

He is my senior at that time and we chatted through Facebook, eventually leading to calling each other and ended up getting into a relationship. He was nice and sweet. However, I could say it is my fault because I was still young and honestly when I think back now I don't think I was ever ready for a relationship back then.

At that point in time, I was having a very close guy best friend, we are table buddy in class and hence we got even closer. Perhaps my ex-boyfriend thinks that I am too close with the guy's best friend and he got jealous. So he tried to 'revenge' back and started texting girls and even my seniors (Which was his classmates). When I found out I obviously confronted him and he told me that he was just trying to 'revenge' and he begged for my forgiveness. It was only about 4-5 months into that relationship and I knew that it was probably because of getting too close with my best friend which turned him into someone like that so I choose to forgive him.

However, after that incident, whenever we fight about something, he would use this method and claim that it was a 'revenge' towards me. I forgave him each time as I was someone who is very soft-hearted. This kind of 'habit' lasts until we broke up.

Even though this relationship had never affected my studies because i am able to planned my time well. But it does affect me mentally and physically (Shall not disclose what happen here). I don't really get any friends to support as I do not really trust them due to what happened back then which lead to me thinking that there is no point.

Therefore, I do want to encourage people to focus on studying just like what the elders had said. Back then, i used to not listen to those as well. However, there is really a reason why they would say stuff like that as it is all based on experiences. Even though he allowed me to become someone more mature because I had gone through those experiences and even got a lesson learnt from that as I reflected on myself. it would really be best to focus on studies since that is your priority. You still had a long way to go and fear not that you will surely get yourself a man/women at some point of time. But once you graduate from your school, you can no longer turn back the time to change the grades on your certificate.